On the surface, the word "yes" indeed signifies consent, but what is the origin of this affirmation? Are both parties mentally prepared to make an informed decision?
If you believe otherwise, then cease your actions. Refrain from subjecting the soon-to-be victim to torment. Avoid turning their life into a living nightmare, for when they realize what has transpired, the devastation will be profound. Such an incident could befall anyone, including you. Educate yourself, understand your rights, and familiarize yourself with the law.
Victimsupport.org.mt provides essential details on what constitutes consent. Moreover, this NGO aids victims who come forward by connecting them with various resources, including free legal advice (provided the victim is ready) and therapy, accompanied by extensive support.
It might take years, even a decade, for victims to muster the courage to confront their assailants. Rape can strip victims of their sense of self, as their right to control their bodies is forcibly taken away. They may grapple with feelings that their bodies no longer belong to them, questioning if they somehow deserved their fate. Just because someone becomes intoxicated during a night out doesn't grant others the right to exploit them.
Unfortunately, women, in particular, face victim-blaming when such incidents occur. They are unfairly criticized for not being more cautious. Society often places greater blame on women, suggesting they should've been more responsible, while men are excused for their actions.
Especially in Malta, women are unjustly labeled by many. While they might have given consent, were they truly in a state of sound mind? Would they have consented if they were fully aware and mentally capable?
Lastly, if a victim confides in you, offer them your belief and support. Avoid ostracizing them. Understand the trauma they've endured. Listen attentively, encourage them to seek assistance, and recognize the immense bravery it took for them to come forward. Their ordeal will undoubtedly reshape their perception of trust. Ultimately, the burden rests most heavily upon them.
End victim-blaming and hold perpetrators accountable.
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